How to Lose Weight When You Are Depressed

Just like me, it is likely that your struggle with depression can also turned into a struggle with your weight. In addition to trying to fill void with foods that you like, it will also become too depressing for you to exercise.

My doctor prescribed antidepressants and mood stabilizers, which gave me the energy to start a new running routine, but the new prescriptions made me gain weight again faster than before.

When I was 23 and in the second year of my graduate counseling program, I was over 30 kilos overweight, and I was devastated by that. The more weight I gained, the more desperate I felt about following my doctor’s advice: “just eat less and exercise more.”

I knew I had to break this vicious circle but, how?

Learning How to Lose Weight Begins With Yourself

Much of the weight gain approach to depression centered around physical changes: talk to your doctor about a new antidepressant, follow that new diet plan, take this new diabetes pill, try this new training.

But these did not get to the heart of the problem of how to lose weight.

What I found, however, was that overcoming my body image problems (and subsequently making healthier choices) had to start from the inside.

Then I put my counseling classes to work for my most important client i.e. ME.

Knowing how to lose weight means: “reward behavior, not the result”

Many people who struggle with losing weight establish the rewards for themselves.

“When I lose ten kilos, I’m going to reward myself with a new dress” If that works for you, fine.

However, in my case it was unsuccessful. No matter how much I went hungry or struggled on my indoor exercise bike, I could not make the scales reflect my hard work. I started doing less healthy things to try to get the results I was looking for, but those were dangerous and unsustainable in the long term.

Realizing How I Could Lose Weight Became a Challenge

While I was doing all of this, I was also learning about behavioral therapies in my counseling classes. We learned that we need to help our clients reward themselves for their small scale behaviors, not for their long-term results. Clients may feel desperate for big goals that can be influenced by opportunities: getting their children back, finding a job, staying sober for a year, etc.

Go for Those Small Tangible Goals

By rewarding smaller actions such as updating your resume or going to a parenting class, you are more likely to feel in control of your results.

You are also more likely to continue taking the small steps that will take you to your final goal.

Mastering how to lose weight is no different. Many factors can influence the weight, and hard work is not always shown in the balance.

I began to reward myself for my behaviors, such as:

  • Go for a walk
  • Go to the gym
  • Buy healthy foods at the supermarket
  • Achieve a small fitness goal (like running a kilometer)

Knowing how to lose weight means making behavior immediately rewarded.

Exercise can help or even cure depression occasionally. Even if you do not lose weight, exercise can make you feel much better about your body.

But when you’re too depressed to get off the couch, those rewards are intangible to motivate anyone.

Instead, I found ways to make exercise fun, social, and easy. I downloaded some applications that made me happy and excited to exercise.

Recruit Your Friends And Be Daring About That

When I felt that each training was an adventure and had my friends talking to me, I found myself being more encouraged to put on my running shoes.

I took it one step further and recruited my friends and family to exercise with me. Now, even though I live far away from everyone I know, we are connected thanks to our exercise routine. My family and I also cook some recipes together, during vacations and evenings as well.

Losing Weight Means Making Exercise And Diet Decisions

Finding ways to exercise consistently and eat calories rich in nutrients made a big difference in my life. Not only because movement can be a great medicine for depression, but because exercise is also associated with a better body image, even without any weight loss.

While new antidepressants and diets can help, I believe that changing how we see goals is a good way to improve mental health, even if you are sick with depression.

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